Allen Creek strives to build relationships in a variety of ways:
- Positive Interaction Techniques;
- A Focus on Child Strengths;
- Forming Authentic Relationships;
- Supporting Children’s Play;
- Using a Problem-Solving Approach to Conflict;
- Respect and Predictability;
- Guidelines for Indoor and Outdoor Play.
Positive Interaction Techniques
The staff at Allen Creek is committed to positive interactions with individual children and within each class group. We greet children as they arrive and work with parents to facilitate a successful separation. During our conversations with children we maintain eye contact, listen carefully, and move close, rather than speaking from a distance. We respect their personal space, and encourage each child to be independent and creative.
Focus on Child Strengths
We believe that children learn best from a position of strength, and that they are highly motivated by personal goals and interests. We understand children by observing them at play. Over time we learn a great deal about their unique qualities. These observations are documented in daily anecdotes, giving us a record of the child’s development over the course of a year. We use this information to help us create curriculum based directly on children’s interests and abilities.
Forming Authentic Relationships
Our belief that the teaching/learning process is social and interactive guides our relationships with children in the classroom. Authentic relationships encourage children to know that there will be times for them to be heard, do things on their own, consider the needs of others, and take initiative and pride in their work. We engage in genuine conversations with children, with specific comments about their work and questions that we honestly need to ask to gather information. Class environments and routines are designed so children have many opportunities to be aware of others, to watch and imitate, to focus on things that have meaning to them, and to discuss and reflect on their actions.
Support of Children’s Play
We believe that children learn through their play, motivated by curiosity about the world around them. Playing as a partner with children in thoughtful and respectful ways is a hallmark of our interactions with children. We do not tease, belittle, tickle, or use other forms of physical aggression in our interactions with your children.
Problem-Solving Approach to Conflict
Social conflict is seen as an opportunity to give children repeated instruction and practice in developing the skills they need to get along with others in the world. We focus on teaching children to resolve their differences with others in cooperative and constructive ways. Teachers facilitate conflict resolution by remaining calm, acknowledging and labeling feelings, gathering information, restating the problem, and offering or asking for solutions. Through this process children make a habit of solving problems, and gain the confidence to do so in future situations.
Respect and Predictability
We teach children to take ownership and responsibility for their classroom environment by ensuring safety, predictability and consistency. This includes letting children know in advance as much as possible of any changes (for instance, visitors, absences, upcoming holidays, and so on).
Physicality in Preschool Age Children
Children of preschool age are physical with each other and typically use their bodies to express themselves, their emotions, and their frustrations and joys. As they get older and enter elementary school they tend to become more comfortable using a combination of physicality and newly acquired verbal and relationship skills to share the same feelings. Allen Creek does not normally report to parents all the physical interactions that fall within developmental norms. However, if a child seems unusually upset, if there is a unusual pattern to the physicality, or there is something else otherwise remarkable about the behavior the teachers will let the parents know at the end of the day in person, via an email or call, or at conferences.
Indoor and Outdoor Play Guidelines
- Adults treat children with kindness and respect at all times and help children do the same with others.
- Adults stop any behaviors that are physically harmful or emotionally upsetting.
- The games children create on their own, and those introduced by adults, are discussed in staff meetings as they relate to acceptable levels of stimulation.
- Adults closely monitor individual children’s reactions to games and activities and engage them in conversations about their feelings.
- There are a minimum of ‘set in stone’ rules (for example, “We only slide down the slide on our bottoms.”)
- We give children information as we observe potential problems (“If you climb up the slide now you could collide with John who is getting ready to come down”).
- We ask them for suggestions on how to keep things safe. (“I know you want to run around and kick balls. Let’s find a place where you can do that without disturbing or hurting children playing in the sandbox.”)
- We help them to stop if something is too noisy or scary, or dangerous to self or others.
Family Handbook Index
Illness and Absences - School Closing & Severe Weather - Clothing, Snack & Lunch - Tuition & Records - Communication - Immunizations - Pick-Up, Drop-Off & Parking - Classroom Visitors - Toys From Home - First Weeks at Allen Creek - Building Relationships - Parent Council - Family Events: Community Meal, Art Night - Friend and Fund Raising: Dining 4 Kids - Mission, Philosophy & Values